September 06, 2006

Quirky is good, isn't it?

Quirky personalities are good. Quirky people are good people. I'm quirky. The guy I'm dating is quirky. Quirky is different. And my guy's college friends have said that he uses his quirkiness to float on by with me and in relationships in general.

What does that mean exactly? I'm not too sure despite the fact that it was explained to me last night by said guy. This was an interesting phone conversation about him and his quirkiness. Apparently, after meeting his close college friends this past weekend at a b-day party, his friends gave me a score of 10 in the "nice, friendly, social" category (I made a good impression!) and my guy scored a 4.5.

A couple things his friends noticed: he wasn't very chivalrous; he talked more about himself and didn't allow me to talk about myself; and he didn't include me in conversations w/ his friends. Honestly, I can't remember too much of the evening even though I didn't have an ounce of alcohol because of the antibiotics from my dog bites. I guess I looked a bit out of place and I hadn't realized it. In any case, I wasn't uncomfortable. Slightly bored but not uncomfortable.

But the scoring. That was interesting. The fact that his friends gave me a 10 and he received a 4.5 imply that, well, I'm too mature, responsible, or too good for him?

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