Too much advice

In two day, I've discussed my relationship w/ Chris to eight friends/family so far. And I've come to the conclusion that no one has very good advice for me. Everyone has their opinion and they tell me what they think about what Chris said but I've realized that only my opinion will count in the end. Of those eight advice givers, only one suggested, no, adamantly felt, that I should talk to Chris and attempt to resolve the issues that he brought up during that rehearsed phone conversation.

Why should it bother me so much and what am I going to get out of discussing anything with him in the first place? Well, I admit I do not agree with the "break" and I feel cheated out of not giving him any responses to his "accusations" and reasoning for this "break". No, I can't leave well enough alone. I have to have closure and that last phone and IM conversation left a lot of things unsaid and it irks me to no end that I didn't have the opportunity to voice my opinions.

I have nothing to lose other than time and he already wasted five weeks of my time anyway. What's another wasted couple hours on a Sunday afternoon? Well, it won't be a complete waste. Maybe he'll learn something about himself and/or I will learn something about myself. Who knows?

I just feel like he jumped the gun, made a bunch of presumptions about me and decided that things weren't going to work out in the future so it would be better to end things. What a cop-out.

Now, he might be willing to meet just to humor me only because he feels bad for "hurting" my feelings. Whatever. I can get over it if he feels it necessary to break up. His loss, not mine. What I know is that he's making a stupid mistake and I can find way better out there. I always do.